My wife sister son he 8 is missing with my 5 year on son I've caught him putting his weiner in front of my son and I told him it was wrong and told his mom an iv put cameras in my house an im wondering what should I do he keeps missing with my son he came home i saw his lip an I asked if he touch him an he says no an I tell him not to lie an the he would tell me that he told him if he's his friend he touch his weiner iv told him that's wrong an y an told his mom but she not doing nothing about it I haven't got him on camera yet to show his mom proof what can I do should I call the cop an report it I'm not sure what to do, My son has downs and doesnt talk he is 15 his female techer was told by me never to change his clothes that he can do it himself and she doesnt need to be looking down there yesterday i got a note from the teacher saying that she put powder on his tesicles she didnt take him to the nurse and she just did it her self now she is saying she never did it becuse i called dcf on her but i have the note from her addmitting to it.when i show her picture to him he gets upset any one elses picture is fine this is the only way he can communicate and i have no idea what to do about this, Hey you guys I hate that Im even here but you know this world is crazy and filled with people were these sites can even exist . Can anyone give advice. she screams and crys hystarically when its time to go home she wont eat she is constantly angry eaying she hates everybody wnd everuthing i need help, 7 my little sister and kids red kiss kuler, My son is 3 Nd he kept putting his fingers in his butt every time i would ask him why he is doing that he would shrug his shoulders and say idk and recently I asked him again and he said his step dad is touching poking his butt and his privates And I ask him and his saying more people are touching him. I asked who showed you their wee wee at your dad house? I just want him to get help. I'm really worried about my 6 year old son's on-going behaviour. Technically, even using the proper word "their" to show possession is not correct in this case either. I decided to google it to see if I was overreacting. (For better understanding, looking up the definitions of pronoun and adverb is advisable.). but still kept quiet about the third person. In fact, they get smarter and better at it. I mean in every state too!!! I know things r being said in her house and by the nan. I've a 3.5yr old daughter. Now for example, when you state in your sixth sign "there very quiet" that, as well, is an incorrect use of the word THERE. To No Name. Sleep issues. I reported the abuse to the local police department and my child was sent to a Dr who was a specialist in examining sexually abused children. If you have any doubt, follow your intuition or you will end up in endless torment like me. It's been 15 months now with no contact. I keep him from my son and daughter but I can not erase the memories of the pain he has caused them. Contact your child's school counselor and they can give you resources in your area. I asked has she seen this before she says she can't remember. Who is protecting our children when parents fight for there children and the law goes against the parent who is not the offender. The fire setting is especially soothing. Instead, go to school to get the facts and make sure you know what your son is being accused of doing. If anyone is standing by while a child is being molested, we do remember. Does counseling help or will it make it worse for her? My ex now wants counselling for our daughter. Please tell me what I should do or think or what I'm really getting sick over this. Ok have a question, I'm adult age n stay with Mom for a sec ..until fix myself correctly ..anyways first time I did flash mom I act asleep ok that first day I did it flash actin I didn't new. I stupidly drew it. I got up and ran out. Divorce if you have to or send the kid away to live with someone you trust like your mother until you can finalize the divorce. She takes off her own diaper and goes. Anyone who knows of their child or grandchild crying out for help and does nothing is JUST AS GUILTY. Sexual kissing. It would be so much easier to read and believe if the author could actually write with good grammar. I asked him about it and he said said he doesnt know what the word gay mean and he said that sex means when people lay on top of each other. What is less well-known is that in 43 percent of assaults on children under 6, juveniles are the offenders. Writing any kind of article for others to read is great and encouraging, especially one such as this. The mother, who lives in a suburb of a major city, called at least 20 places looking for help before she found a program that took juvenile sex offenders. Just putting this out there so parents will watch for this. I has small to well nothing else. (Atleast not in California ). He dipped me back on the bed and try to insert his fingers into my private. Once again, you used the word child, which is a word used to describe singularity, meaning you are communicating ONE person, so the proper words to use in this type of sentence would be, "doing stuff to HIM/HERHE/SHE has a look.", An example of proper usage of the word THEY'RE would be, "they're going to the store." That is the case with one Midwestern mother, who requested that her name not be used to protect her family's privacy. I mean I want to protect my daughter n I am but I want to find the right way. She said he blows smoke at her and the are pot smokers. I have asked my fianc and he got really upset asking why I would ask him that question or why I would even think he would do that after 4 years and he is an amazing dad and my Son love to go with him and lives being around him. Can refer to a local reporting number. Her first response was Heck No Mommy no one kissed me. They lull you into a false sense of security, and that's what my . If your child tries to touch children or adults in their private areas, or if sex suddenly becomes a topic. Child protective services ruins people's lives and children's lives as well. To continue, I will explain the word THEY'RE. That was strike 1 just from walking in . Honey if you were my daughter, i would want to know if your dad was touching you. "It's not black and white, but if it's a 7-year-old looking at a 4-year-old's genitals, I don't see this as a reportable offense," says Janet Rosenzweig, the executive director of the American Professional Society on the Abuse of Children and author of the book "The Sexwise Parent." And has been so angry. After two months of extreme behavioral changes, my child told me her dad was "spanking" her privates in his bed. I asked why and she told me daddy puts his pee pee in my butt and also said timmy(daddys friend) spits in my Pee Pee) my husband heard her and we quickly took her to cps they took all the children away its been almost a month, we were all set up to take custody again and my daughter somehow had the girls put in foster care, So at lost we did nothing wrong and granddaughter did nothing wrong. And there was this time i was drawing on the sofa and my mom sat on the other side of the sofa, naked waist down asking me how good i was at drawing. They just smiled. My niece is being molested she told me her new mother of one month says she knows her secret and is OK with it now I have to monsters in this home and noone believes me how do I help her with no proof. My brother was stunned!! I have a step son (age 10) that is showing serious signs of being gay. She took her son to a specialist and hoped that would be the end of it. Your daughters that are learning shit like this from an older person isnt learning how to do it to other kids and it isnt not cool ! Then orabelle my daughter said ok let's take picture of you and again this little girl freaked completely, I don't know why this little girl is so afraid of pictures of herself or drawing of herself, like I've. She is a recovering alcoholic and is attending AA meetings every day. over the years since i saw her i never understood what she meant, but now i do. She wants "real" things for this babydoll, like a new car seat, stroller,, etc. My son is only in Kindergarten. When i was 18-19 my sister found out he was cheating on my mum. 1. My girlfriend's 11 yr old son and 7yr old daughter, wait till we fall asleep and then they start touching each other. I am very good friends with my uncle, but I do remember. why is it now different with him who is a muslim and i am white? And she just kinda left the thought alone . He visits his dad and mom bi weekly and they love him but cannot afford to keep him . She 3.5!! I understand my baby and I want to help her. He said my sister was disgusting because shes a lesbian. I have had custody of my grandson since he was 15 months old . I became distant to my family after i learned that what they did was disgusting. When dad was confronted by officials , he denied it. It didn't look like yeast either. He needs protecting! Now they're saying they need more time. I have a distant memory of when I was about 9 years old (maybe younger) and waking up and finding that my uncle, who was visiting us, and who was only 2 years older than I am, had cut a hole in my undies and was perhaps trying to penetrate my butt with his fingers. No letter, no email, no phone call, no text and no more visits.um ok? I was furious thinking my cousins were getting touched by their dad and I knew something was going on . The reason Im here I was looking online about all the child abuse . REPORT EVERYTHING as soon as it happens. will not help you well this A.P.S. He'd tell her that mum didnt give him affection and she treats him poorly, which is true, but he used it to guilt trip her. If he doesn't kiss her vulva, she will spread her legs apart and ask him to. Sibling sexual abuse and sibling incest happens. why would you sleep next to dad? I would repeatedly ask her not to do that but she continued to undress them. That concludes my comment. But sexual abuse of children by children is common - although it is more accurate to say that children act inappropriately with other children. Do they do intercourse with their dad ? The only thing we can do is to make our children our priority. "Then if you see some behavior that falls outside of that you can say, 'We talked about this before.' She said a glow stick. I'm 17 now and I feel enraged and terrified every day of my life. And finally there can be a biological or DNA evidence as in the case of sexual assault, evidence left on the victim's body or clothing after a sexual encounter. All that kept coming to my head ! I would say to parents BE INFORMED more so about the signs in your children's behavior as victims in order to know the signs and help them to escape at a early age. Which I haven't. Im not quite sure what wrong with our system but this a profound women who lacks even cleaning her kids or taking them to the doctor not to mention has almost had her kids taken multiple time and almost had one of the twins aka our little girl almost pass away from failing to act on how sick she truly was with E. coli E. coli Im tired of this fucking system cops are fucking pigs. My daughter's father always likes to shower with her and I caught him exposing himself to her when he thought I was out smoking a cigarette. He did it till she was about 22. When it comes to harmful or inappropriate or illegal sexual behavior with prepubescent children, the perpetrators are frequently other children under 18, and often under 15. She just randomly says things. Maybe someone may shine light to hats wrong here. At 8-years-old, a child absolutely knows what parts of the body are appropriate and inappropriate to touch. What should i do? Wait what? Unfortunately when we do respond to child sexual abuse, we often respond as if a 9- or 10- or 11- or even 12-year-old was the same as an adult.". Get a lawyer. A brief Google search would've shown you that, had any of you actually bothered to do so. She is refusing to allow "grandpa" to visit or even communicate with his 2 grandsons and great grandchildren until he writes a letter acknowledging detailing his "mis-deeds" and asking for her forgiveness. 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